Private parties · New York City
New York Swingers Party
Small, invitation-only nights for couples and single women who want the lifestyle done with style: a beautiful private venue, a guest list chosen by hand, and clear rules that keep everyone comfortable.
Small on purpose
A private party works when everyone in the room wanted to be invited and everyone was. We keep numbers low and the balance right, so nobody is crowded and nobody is left standing at the bar.
Chosen guests
Couples and single women apply with a short introduction and recent photos. A real person reads every application. The photos are seen once, by the organizers only, and never shared.
Rules first
Consent is asked for and never assumed. "No" ends the question. Phones stay in the cloakroom. Read the house rules before you apply.
New to the scene?
Your first party, step by step
Most first-timers are nervous about the same handful of things: what to wear, what happens when you walk in, and whether you are expected to do anything. You are not. Plenty of couples spend their first night talking, dancing and watching.
Read the first-timer's guideThe landscape
How swinging in New York works
On-premise clubs in Manhattan and Queens, house parties, hotel takeovers, lifestyle cruises out of the city: New York has more choice than anywhere in the country. Here is what each kind of night is like and how to pick.
Read the guideTravelling to Europe?
Our sister organization Rope & Candy hosts elegant private parties for couples and single girls in Stockholm, Riga and Vilnius, with the same hand-picked guest lists and the same rules. The same invitation list covers both.
Parties are private. The list is how you hear about them.
Join with your name or an alias. We never ask for your real name.
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