House Rules

Consent

1. Ask before you touch. Every time.
2. "No" is a full answer. So is silence. So is a shake of the head.
3. Asking again after a no means you leave and are not invited back.
4. A couple's limits are set by the partner with the stricter ones.

Privacy

1. Phones and cameras stay in the cloakroom all night.
2. You never name, describe or tag another guest anywhere, online or off.
3. Recognized someone from work or the gym? Say nothing, then and later.
4. Your application photos are seen by the organizers only, and never shared.

Who can come

1. Adults over 18 only. A photo ID is checked at the door.
2. Couples and single women. No single men.
3. Only guests on the confirmed list for that night. No plus-ones at the door.

On the night

1. Dress smart. Cocktail wear, not jeans and sneakers.
2. Drink like a guest, not like a bachelor party. Visibly drunk guests are sent home in a car.
3. Doors that are closed stay closed. Open doors mean people are happy to be watched, not joined.
4. Protection is provided and expected.

If something feels wrong

Find anyone from the team. We act at once and quietly. No guest is ever in trouble for raising a concern.